Do you have a friend who always corrects you, points out your mistakes, “for your good” or because he or she “cares about you”? You worry what your next “mistake” is going to be. Being in company of such people drains our energy and makes us unhappy. Surround yourself with positive, happy people who share your values, around whom you feel comfortable and at ease. These people create an environment of trust and happiness. Give genuine compliments to others, praise any good actions, and be open to be on the receiving end of compliments and praise. Next time when your coworker compliments you for your pretty blouse, smile and say thank you. Don’t say something like “I know, but it makes me look fat”